Not quite a day, more like 36 hours……the fastest life changing 36 hours I have ever lived, thank God for Rum….!
We’d decided a long time ago that we wanted to be married but we hadn’t named a date, we felt it was more important that the venue was right rather than all the arranging that usually goes into the big day……make no mistake, it was still a big, huge, fantastic day and there were times when it didn’t look like we would succeed but you know what they say…..Fear Not England, Tim is at the Helm….!
Having been in Dominica for a couple of days we both knew it was the place. The people were so friendly, not wealthy by any means but willing to help with anything. Upon arrival, we tried to contact the Port and stay on the right side of Immigration, but being New Year’s Day, there was something wrong with their radio and no-one to fix it…! We called for a radio check and got a response from Pancho Services and that’s where the fun started.
Pancho told us how to clear Immigration and was waiting for us a one of his mooring buoys. We rarely use mooring buoys, but he was so helpful and we knew the anchoring was poor here that we decided to use him. Actually, Immigration were the nicest officers we’d come across anywhere when we saw them the following day.
Back to the story, we started at the Magistrate’s Court who told us that we needed to go to the Community Development Dept. on the other side of town, so we did. They informed us that we would need:
Passport photo each
Birth Certificate
Sworn Oath in place of Decree Absolute for Tim
$300 EC dollars
$7.50 in stamps to be affixed to two of the forms that we were given
A ‘G’ form to be signed and sworn in front of a Magistrate.
Having completed all the above (not easy) we trolled along to the Magistrates office and waited until we were told that Sam needed a certificate of Non Marriage….? We went back to our original lawyer, who was out, so we went to another lawyer. One Affidavit later and back to the Magistrate (I hope none of my relatives are as full of their own self importance as this guy was) where we sat and waited. Eventually after all sorts of warnings about perjury and imprisonment for Sam he signed and we had 15 mins to get back to the other side of town for it all to be rubber stamped. ‘Come back at 10am tomorrow, but you can go and organise a time with the Registrar now’. We did, 2.30pm on the 6th of Jan was the appointed hour.
The Registrar is a lovely man. His name is Reginald Winston and he is a staunch Royalist (pictures of him with Duke of Edinburgh and Prince Edward) and he was very chatty. It seemed everything was on course so we went to a local bar, ‘The Ruins’ for a celebratory Rum Punch, where we met the waitress, Rachel, who we realised we’d seen before at a local hotel with her daughter Freya.
We got chatting and suddenly we had an eight year old bridesmaid, Freya who was so excited as she’d never been to a wedding before.
The next day dawned and we needed a gift for the bridesmaid, a false finger nail for Sam’s ring finger
Change of plan, go and get ready first, send Tim for the licence and go straight to the ceremony, simple. We had arranged for a water taxi
At 3pm and still no licence, Tim felt the need to tell Sam and the Registrar what wasn’t happening so he legged across town to do so
Back to ‘The Ruins’ to return the bridesmaid
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